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After some research into the religion of Islam, I have come to
the conclusion that I truly believe the statement
La ilaha il Allah, Muhammad-ur-Rasool-Allah
(None has the right to be worshipped but Allah, and Muhammad is
the Messenger of Allah), but I have so much more to learn
including the prayers, when should I give the Shahada?
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If
I become a Muslim will I need to change my name?
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I believe Islam is the true religion but I don't know any
Muslims and I am scared to approach a mosque, is there anyone
available to help me?
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Someone told me that Muslims can't have a relationship with
non-Muslims, is this true? All my family are Non-Muslim and I
don't want to cut ties with my family.
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Does a new Muslim have to separate from his wife, if she doesn’t
accept Islam? Should his children from her be considered as
Muslims? Does he have to change their names to Muslim names?
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I am a working woman and I am scared to put on the scarf as I
may lose my job, is there any law to protect me in Australia?
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Presently I am a single woman and I hope to marry a practicing
Muslim in the future but I don't want to be in a polygamous
marriage, do I have any rights to stop that from happening?
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Do men and/or women have to wear a head covering and what
colours and styles of clothing are we able to wear? What exactly
are the requirements of modest dress in Islam?
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I heard that it is obligatory to attend Jumu'ah Prayer on
Friday, what happens if my employer doesn't give me the time off
to attend?
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I heard that Muslims only eat meat that is slaughtered in the
correct manner, I live in a small town where there are no Halal
Butchers, will I have to be vegetarian?
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I feel blessed that Allah has lead me to Islam but when I
mentioned to my friends that I will become a Muslim, they said
that if I do become a Muslim then I won't be their friend
anymore. I feel I will be very much alone, is there any kind of
support group available?
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I am a white Australian, will born Muslims accept me?
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I truly wish to become a Muslim but I have lived a life filled
with all kinds of self destructive behavior and immorality, will
God ever forgive me?
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Years ago I embraced Islam but later returned to the religion of
my upbringing due to family pressure, can I say my Shahada
again or am I a lost cause?
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I work in an industry that is considered Haram (forbidden); do I
need to find another job?
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After some research into the religion of Islam, I have come to
the conclusion that I truly believe the statement La ilaha
il Allah, Muhammad-ur-Rasool-Allah (None has the right to be
worshipped but Allah, and Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah),
but I have so much more to learn including the prayers, when
should I give the Shahada?
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The
shahada should not be delayed; it should be given as soon as
possible. The reason for this is we do not know when our time
to die is. Therefore you do not want to die as a non-believer.
This step is the one that will protect you from the
everlasting punishment of Hell and opens to you the path to
Heaven after death and will result in success and happiness in
this life and the hereafter. We advise you to hasten with your
decision and do not hesitate and don't postpone it. Everything
else will follow inshaAllah (if Allah wills). |
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If I
become a Muslim will I need to change my name?
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No, you
are not required to change your name unless it embodies the
worship of someone or something other than Allah. Thus, if
one’s name is Abdul-Messiah (slave of messiah) or similar such
names, then you are obliged to change it. If the original name
does not compromise or imply anything forbidden in Islam, then
you are permitted to retain it for example: George, Mary,
Adam, David. |
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NOTE:
If changing one’s name in official documents and records poses
inconvenience, it would suffice to change it among the people.
In this case you would be called by your new name by your
family, friends and the general public. |
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I believe Islam is the true religion but I don't know any Muslims
and I am scared to approach a mosque, is there anyone available to
help me?
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Yes there is a lot of
organizations that are set up to help and teach new reverts
(non-Muslims who come back to Islam) about Islam, you can
contact Islam-Australia by phone (0419953431) or E-mail
alwazir@optusnet.com.au
and they will put you in contact with the right people closest
to you . |
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Someone told me that Muslims can't have a relationship with
non-Muslims, is this true? All my family are Non-Muslim and I
don't want to cut ties with my family.
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That is not true, we are
encouraged in Islam to keep ties with our family and to be
good to our parents. Allah states in the Qur’an: {And We have
enjoined on man to be good and dutiful to his parents; but if
they strive to make you join with me(in worship) anything (as
a partner) of which you have no knowledge, then obey them not.
Unto Me is your return and I shall tell you what you used to
do}(C29:V8) |
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Also
Allah revealed another verse in the Qur’an, |
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But if they (both) strive
with you to make you join in worship with Me others that of
which you have no knowledge, then obey them not; but behave
with them in the world kindly, and follow the path of him who
turns to me in repentance and obedience. Then to me will be
your return, and I shall tell you what you used to do.(C31:V15) |
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It is very important in
Islam to be good to one’s parents and to remember that their
disbelief does not justify disobedience by the son or daughter
and that doing them good does not contradict with your
innocence of them as non believers, on the contrary as it is
stated in
C31:V15 above, Allah has commanded us to treat the non
believing parents kindly even if they strive to make their
child a polytheist because of their rights as parents hoping
that they will embrace Islam. |
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Does a new Muslim have to separate from his wife, if she doesn’t
accept Islam? Should his children from her be considered as
Muslims? Does he have to change their names to Muslim names?
It is permitted to stay married
to her if she is a Jew or Christian, in accordance with the
statement of Allah, the Exalted:
“And chaste women from the
People of the Book (are lawful for you).” (C5:V5)
A chaste
woman is one who does not have illicit sex, guarding thereby her
own honor and that of her husband. However, if she is a Buddhist
or a Hindu, he has no (legal) right to stay married to her except
if she accepts Islam during her Iddah, in which case the marriage
remains valid.
Iddah is
the waiting period a divorced woman or a widow observe before she
can remarry. It is the duration of three menstrual periods or
delivery if pregnant. In case of divorce and if the divorce is
revocable, the couple may resume their life after reconciliation
within the Iddah but with a new Mahr (jointure) and marriage. The
husband has a three times to divorce and after the third he cannot
return her back till she gets married to another person. If the
later divorces her, it becomes lawful to the former.
As for the
children, they should follow the better of their two parents in
religion. So if the mother accepts Islam, but her husband refuses,
they should follow her in religion. Likewise, if the father
accepts Islam, but the mother refuses, the children should follow
the Muslim father. This rule applies to the children who have not
reached maturity. After maturity, the choice is up to them, since
they are responsible for themselves. They would not be considered
s Muslims based on the Islam of one of their parents, until they
accept Islam themselves, like any other adult.
As for the changing the names
of those who accept Islam among them, or who are classified
Muslims in accordance with the Islam of one of their parents, the
issue is same as for adults, as has already been discussed.
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I am a working woman and I am scared to put on the scarf as I may
lose my job, is there any law to protect me in Australia?
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Everyone in Australia has the right to a fair go. This means
no discrimination, harassment or vilification in many areas of
public life. Discrimination means treating someone unfairly
because they happen to belong to a particular group of people
It is generally against the law to treat you unfairly, or
harass you, because of: |
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your race, colour, nationality, descent, ethnic or
ethno-religious background, or |
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because of the race, colour, nationality, descent, ethnic or
ethno-religious background of any of your relatives, friends
or work colleagues. |
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For
further information you can contact the anti discrimination
board at:
http://www.lawlink.nsw.gov.au/adb |
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Presently I am a single woman and I hope to marry a practicing
Muslim in the future but I don't want to be in a polygamous
marriage, do I have any rights to stop that from happening?
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Allah has made it lawful
for a man to marry up to four wives at any one time Allah
states in the Qur’an: |
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"If you fear that you shall
not be able to deal justly with the orphans, marry women of
your choice, two or three or four; but if you fear that you
shall not be able to deal justly with them, then only one" (C4:V3).
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You may write in your
marriage contract as a condition that you would not want your
future husband to take a second wife as long as you are
married to him, but you should know that he still has the
right to marry another wife (because we cannot change what
Allah has made lawful) but he will be breaking the condition
in the marriage contract and will be punished for that. |
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Do men and/or women have to wear a head covering and what colours
and styles of clothing are we able to wear? What exactly are the
requirements of modest dress in Islam?
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Women
do have to cover their heads because Allah has commanded them
to, Allah States in the Qur’an: |
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“O
Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of
the believers to draw their cloaks (veils) all over their
bodies (i.e. screen themselves completely except the eyes or
one eye to see the way). That will be better, that they should
be known (as free respectable women) so as not to be annoyed.
And Allah is Ever Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.” |
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This Verse clearly states
that it is obligatory to cover all of a woman’s beauty and
adornments and not to display any part of that before non-mahram
men (“strangers”) except for whatever appears unintentionally
(hands and face), in which case there will be no sin on them
if they hasten to cover it up. The clothing should be of loose
fitting, it should not be an adornment in and of itself
(bright colours or decorated) because if it is it will attract
men’s attention to her, it should be thick and not transparent
or see-through because it cannot cover properly otherwise It
should be loose, not tight so that it describes any part of
the body. |
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As for
men they are not required to cover their heads but are
required to dress modestly. |
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I heard that it is obligatory to attend Jumu'ah Prayer on Friday,
what happens if my employer doesn't give me the time off to
attend?
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You have the right to ask
your employer for time off for your Jumu’ah Prayer on Friday.
The Jumu’ah Prayer usually lasts about 45minutes to 1 hour in
which case you could use your lunch break. |
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I heard that Muslims only eat meat that is slaughtered in the
correct manner, I live in a small town where there are no Halal
Butchers, will I have to be vegetarian?
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It is permitted to eat the
meat slaughtered by Jews and Christians, as long as it is not
known to be killed in contradiction to the instructions of
Islamic Law*. That is because the basic assumption is that the
meat of animals they slaughter is lawful, just like that
slaughtered by a Muslim in accordance with the statement of
Allah: |
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"This day are (all) things
good and pure made lawful unto you. The food of the People of
the Book (Christians and Jews) is lawful unto you and yours is
lawful unto them.” (C5:V5) |
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* There are two major
requirements in the method of slaughter: |
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The throat, including the
windpipe, esophagus and at least one of the major arteries
must be cut with a knife – the sharper, the better.
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The name of Allah should be pronounced at the
time of the slaughter. |
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I feel blessed that Allah has lead me to Islam but when I
mentioned that I think I will become a Muslim to my
friends they said that if I do become Muslim then I won't be
anymore friend of theirs. I feel I will be very much alone,
is there any kind of support group available?
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Don’t be pressured by your
friends. Know that one of the rules of Islam is that you
should love Allah and His Messenger (peace and blessings of
Allah be upon Him), and that love for Allah should take
priority over love for anyone else. Allah States in the
Qur’an; |
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“Say: If your fathers, your
sons, your brothers, your wives, your kindred, the wealth that
you have gained, the commerce in which you fear a decline, and
the dwellings in which you delight are dearer to you than
Allah and His Messenger, and striving hard and fighting in His
Cause, then wait until Allah brings about His Decision
(torment). And Allah guides not the people who are Al-Fasiqoon
(the rebellious, disobedient to Allah)” [C9:V24] |
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And know that you will not
be alone, you can contact Islam-Australia and they will put
you in contact with a support group in your area. |
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I
am a white Australian, will born Muslims accept me?
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Islam is the religion for
all of mankind, no matter what their colour, land, tribe or
language etc. There is no superiority of anyone over anyone
else in Islam, except in terms of taqwa (piety, consciousness
of Allah). Allah states in the Qur’an; |
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“O mankind! We have
created you from a male and a female, and made you into
nations and tribes, that you may know one another. Verily, the
most honorable of you with Allah is that (believer) who has
al-taqwa (i.e., is one of the muttaqoon – the pious). Verily,
Allah is All-Knowing, All-Aware.” (C49:V13) |
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In His wisdom, Allah has
made mankind into different peoples and tribes so that they
may know one another, not so that they may despise one
another. He tells us that the differences in colour and
languages are a sign of His greatness and power in creation.
Allah States in the Qur’an: |
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“And among His Signs is the
creation of the heavens and the earth and the difference of
your languages and colours. Verily, in that are indeed signs
for men of sound knowledge.” (C30:V22) |
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The Prophet of Islam,
Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) affirmed
the prohibition of racial discrimination and of despising
coloured people, when he said in his famous speech: “O people,
your Lord is One and your father (i.e., Adam) is one. There is
no superiority of the Arab over the non-Arab or of the
non-Arab over the Arab or of the red over the black, or of the
black over the red – except with regard to taqwa.” (Reported
by Imam Ahmad, 22391) |
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I truly wish to become a Muslim but I have lived a life filled
with all kinds of self destructive behaviour and immorality,
will God ever forgive me?
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Your Lord is Most Merciful;
He accepts repentance and forgives all sins. His Mercy
encompasses all things. He calls you and all His slaves to
repent and to become Muslim. He has promised you, through the
words of His Messenger Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah
be upon him), that all of your previous sins, major and minor,
of whatever type, will be wiped out completely when you become
Muslim, and you will start with a clean sheet, a new record of
deeds that is free of bad deeds. Allah states in the Qur’an: |
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‘Say: “O ‘Ibaadi (My
slaves) who have transgressed against themselves (by
committing evil deeds and sins)! Despair not of the Mercy of
Allah, verily, Allah forgives all sins. Truly, He is
Oft‑Forgiving, Most Merciful. |
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And turn in repentance and
in obedience with true Faith (Islamic Monotheism) to your Lord
and submit to Him (in Islam) before the torment comes upon
you, (and) then you will not be helped. |
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And follow the best of that
which is sent down to you from your Lord (i.e. this Qur’aan,
do what it orders you to do and keep away from what it
forbids), before the torment comes on you suddenly while you
perceive not!” (C39:V53-55) |
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Every human makes mistakes
and by saying the shahada again sincerely InshaAllah it will
be accepted. Allah states in the Qur’an: |
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“The revelation of the Book
(this Qur’aan) is from Allah, the All Mighty, the All Knower.
The Forgiver of sin, the Acceptor of repentance, the Severe in
punishment, the Bestower (of favours). Laa ilaaha illa Huwa
(none has the right to be worshipped but He), to Him is the
final return” (C40:V2-3)
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I work in an industry that is considered Haram (forbidden); do I
need to find another job?
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We would like to avoid
answering this question in general. If you are in this
situation, email
alwazir@optusnet.com.au
the details regarding the industry and your involvement in it
and Islam-Australia will organise a response to those details. |
Wallahu
Alam (And Allah Knows the best). |