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Following
is a brief history of the Perth-based UFO Abductee/Contactee Support Group
, which was formed in late 1996. Its evolution has sparked interest not only from its participants,
but also from organizations Australia-wide, the media and from overseas.
In
1996, a group of Western Australian UFO researchers decided to form a
support group for those people who have had 'encounter' experiences.
In ufology terms, these are called 'Close Encounters of the Fourth
Kind' and simply refer to anyone who believes he or she has had some contact
or interaction with extraterrestrial life forms.
At
this time, they had in mind at least one facilitator for the group.
This was Elizabeth Robinson, a professional therapist/counsellor,
trained in group work, who had had her own abduction/encounter experiences. When Mary Rodwell heard about the proposed support group, she
contacted the UFO researchers and explained to them that she had already
considered forming a support group for the growing number of such clients
she was seeing in her counselling practice.
Mary informed them of her qualifications and background and a meeting
was arranged where Mary learnt that they had already formed an advisory
committee which included a psychiatrist to ensure that a professional
support group was formed. This
was totally in line with Mary's view because, as she had spent ten years
in the counselling field, having trained in the UK and had experience
in group work, she understood the need to create a credible, professional
support network.
It
was arranged for Elizabeth and Mary to meet in December 1996, with the
hope that they would work together. The goals were to provide a professional and supportive resource
for all those abductees/contactees who needed it. This support group would offer total confidentiality, with
the understanding that they would honour the clients’ experiences
and support them emotionally and psychologically.
As
both Mary and Elizabeth were keen to begin, they advertised the Abductee/Contactee
Support Group in NOVA, Western Australia’s Holistic Journal in March
1997 and the following month. They obtained further publicity for the
group by having two articles published in the May 1997 issue of NOVA.
These were 'Counselling the Abductee', written by Mary and
a 'A Secret Life Awakened', written by Elizabeth which was about
her own encounter experiences.
Initially,
fifteen individuals contacted them. A screening process was developed to assess
what level of trauma was present.
If someone was too severely traumatised, they felt it would not
be helpful for them to attend the group immediately, but instead would
provide them with one-to-one counselling support.
They also wanted to be certain that people presented with the
typical patterns associated with encounter experiences, because some
individuals who have paranormal experiences that echo some aspects of
the encounter experience, are not necessarily abductees/contactees.
Mary
and Elizabeth also had enquiries from people who were interested in the
phenomenon and wanted to attend the group out of curiosity.
It was important to explain to them that this was a therapeutic
support group that was only for abductee/encounter experiencers, where
group privacy and confidentiality were paramount.
Eight
people came to the first meeting, plus a psychologist, who attended
as another professional to provide feedback. For many of them, meeting other experiencers
was a total revelation. Despite
the trepidation and anxiety some felt about coming, it was quite amazing
that, once introductions had been made, the floodgates opened. By this, it is meant that they openly
talked to each other about their experiences. It was as if the burden they had been carrying in silence and
isolation had suddenly been lifted.
Even during the coffee break the conversation continued almost
without ceasing. Several
individuals said they felt a real bond with some members of the group,
even though they had never physically met before.
It was if they already knew them.
Time
and time again, with small variations, they were the typical abductee/contactees
pattern. One young woman
in her twenties, who was severely traumatised by her experiences, said
it took tremendous courage for her to attend the meeting. She said afterwards how pleased she was
that she had found the courage to come. "I had always dreamed of
something like this, but never believed it would happen." This statement epitomised how valuable
a support group is and confirms the need to continue with it.
It
was clear that the needs of the group were not just about isolation and
past experiences, but also for therapeutic support for on-going experiences.
There is a desire by many abductees/contactees to try and make
sense of this enigma, a desire to understand it and its meaning in their
lives. This includes support
for the paradigm shifts that many of them have to make.
One
of the main stumbling blocks to any new venture is money.
Mary and Elizabeth had no financial resources, so the support group
has had to fund itself. There was no money for advertising.
Some of the abductees/contactees said they would do their own publicity
for the group, via word-of-mouth, but they had to find other ways to inform
those people in isolation where they could find help.
They did have some assistance with this from the local UFO researchers,
who referred clients to them
They
also had support of some periodicals from complementary fields that kindly
advertised their Support Group free of charge. These were Astrally Yours and The Healing Circle. Although
this advertising was very welcome, it did not inform the wider community.
Soon it meant that they had to go public via media outlets such
as magazines, newspapers, radio and television. To do this was hugely confronting for both Mary and Elizabeth. They were both professional people who
had credibility in the conventional therapeutic world. They could not predict what the consequences
would be both professionally, or personally. For Elizabeth, there was the added dimension
of exposing herself as an abductee/contactee.
Both
Mary and Elizabeth knew that with the media, much of the material would
be sensationalised and put out of context. In fact, this did happen in several popular
women's magazines who told their version of the story -often in lurid
colour and with prose that resembled a horror script! With resignation Mary and Elizabeth finally
subscribed to the saying: "All publicity is good publicity!"
They
fared slightly better in the local newspapers. They also had some good exposure on radio
shows in Perth, as well as in the Eastern states. Elizabeth has been on a telephone satellite-link
with a nation-wide American radio show. She also featured on the Channel Seven
television news. However,
the most honouring and informative program was a one hour television
documentary special, called Oz Encounters: UFOs in Australia, which went to air Australia-wide in November 1997 on Channel Seven.
This documentary is now on sale to the public and has also been
sold to Discovery Channel, a satellite television channel in America.
Mary
suspects they will struggle for credibility for some time.
"It goes with the controversial nature of this phenomenon.
Media exposure, no matter how lurid, can still reach those who
are looking for help. For
the open-minded in the community, it may just start them thinking. The close-minded, however will probably
remain so. Even if a spaceship
landed on their front lawn, they would probably want to deny it was there."
To
date, the Support Group's exposure had been quite successful and has reached
many of those in isolation with this experience.
One letter received from a gentleman in his forties said: "Thank
you so much for what you are doing, at last I now know I'm not mad!"
It
was important to access more information from the professional therapeutic
world and it was discovered that the USA had the most to offer in this
respect. Mary contacted the
PEER (Program for Extraordinary Experience Research) organisation president,
Dr John Mack, who is a psychiatrist and the author of Abduction. This
organisation invites professional therapists to share their information
through newsletters and workshops.
The
second resource was the Academy of Clinical Close Encounter Therapists
(ACCET) in Sacramento, California, a professional organization whose members
are psychiatrists, psychologists, doctors and those in the therapeutic
field who are working with abductees/contactees. ACCET run workshops worldwide. Mary became a clinician member of ACCET
in 1997 and from their list of members has access to other therapists. It was with interest that to date, Mary
counted one hundred and five members.
Only recently, a gentleman from Hobart, Tasmania, was referred
to her through ACCET. This
proves that building contacts and networking is so important.
Moreover,
as a result of the media publicity and amount of advertising that had
been done, Mary and Elizabeth started to receive an increasing number
of telephone calls from local psychologists, therapists, counsellors and
others in the healing fields. So, in the latter part of 1997, they were invited to meet with
Mary and Elizabeth to share in their understanding of the phenomena and
to inform them of what they were doing. Mary and Elizabeth were delighted
and heartened by their support and enthusiasm during the meeting and as
a consequence, formed the Australian Close Encounter Resource Network
(ACERN).
The
main aim of ACERN
is to provide information,
establish support groups, carry through professional referrals, raise
the public's awareness about ACERN,
network with organisations Australia-wide and overseas and to
have a register of qualified professionals, counsellors and therapists
who can provide the necessary support for those with encounter experiences.
In fact, within such a short amount of time, the Abductee/Contactee
Support Group has expanded its horizons into an organization, which
now comprises representatives and support from several of the healing
professions.
It
was under the banner of ACERN
that Mary and Elizabeth attended the Australian International UFO Symposium,
in Brisbane in October 1997. Before
their departure, they had three main aims, which were: to advertise
ACERN, to
network with other support groups and professional therapists and to gather
the latest information. They were able to achieve much of the
above and were delighted when one of the symposium speakers, Cecilia Dean,
not only showed support and interest in their organization, but also advertised
and spoke about it at the symposium and took the information back to America.
The
trip had been extremely worthwhile and it had been very special for ACERN
to meet so many well- informed individuals and be able to resource them
for information. They also
attended the Budd Hopkins' workshop for therapists and experiencers.
Through this exchange, they received further validation that they
were on the right track.
As
the Abductee/Contactee Support Group celebrated its first anniversary
in April 1998, over seventy individuals with abduction/contact experiences
had contacted
ACERN,
as well as local and
overseas therapists, researchers and UFO groups.
The group continues to prosper, with many of the initial members
saying how they now feel more confident and less isolated.
Some have been courageous enough to go public.
It has been an amazing group journey. The ages range from fourteen years to sixty, with more females
than males. Some of the members
support other family members who are experiencers, but do not attend the
group. For some, it is their
children who are having the experience.
ACERN
has heard from
a broad section of society, including housewives, schoolchildren, farmers,
labourers, university students, teachers and psychologists.
The experience has also touched the Aboriginal, European and Asian
cultures.
Most
of those attending the group have on-going experiences.
Meetings are held monthly and have a set agenda.
Minutes are recorded for all meetings and then the members are
invited to share any new experiences.
Techniques or strategies are discussed and they share whatever
is helpful, including their intuitive understanding of the experience. Resource material is discussed, including
books and videos. If they
need one-to-one support, they ask either at the meeting or later by phone. Apart from verbal discussion, strategies
for integration such as drawing, meditation and written expression are
encouraged. A 'buddy system'
has been introduced and for the members, who wish to participate, it has
been very helpful.
ACERN continues
to explore opportunities to advertise, as their priority is to reach
the many abductees/contactees
out there which they believe may be having difficulty coping.
It is important to say that of the many people who are having
encounter experiences who have contacted ACERN, slightly
less than a third are traumatised. Many people cope with this experience quite well and some say
that it has been a very special experience, which has transformed their
lives. They really believe
it has opened them to a 'greater multi-dimensional reality'!
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